Removing the Victim

November 20: Removing the Victim

By Melody

 

 

“Don’t others see how much I’m hurting?” “Can’t they see I need help?” “Don’t they care?”

 

The issue is not whether others see or care. The issue is whether we see and care about ourselves. Often, when we are pointing a finger at others, waiting for them to have compassion for us, it’s because we have not fully accepted our pain. We have not yet reached that point of caring about ourselves. We are hoping for an awareness in another that we have not yet had.

 

It is our job to have compassion for ourselves. When we do, we have taken the first step toward removing ourselves as victims. We are on the way to responsibility, self-care, and change.

 

Today, I will not wait for others to see and care; I will take responsibility for being aware of my pain and problems, and caring about myself