Neytiri always struggled accepting our relation and I think she now understands it better. The below will highlight the differences between the DREAM and reality(?)....Ish'llah!
Copyrighted Material from the forthcoming book
Kindredness, Kinships, and Soulmate Experiences
by Robert S. Badame, Ph.D. and Shelley F. Diamond, Ph.D.
TRADITIONAL COUPLES ROMANTIC SOULMATES
Romance diminishes over time Romance deepens & permeates over time
Committment consciously chosen Being together seems like foregone
and must be regularly renewed conclusion, undeniable inevitability
Wish certain aspects changed, flaws Appreciated exactly the way you are,
resignedly tolerated including flaws
Need to learn how to communicate and Communicate effortlessly, understand
understand each other immediately, sixth sense of perception
Both feel somewhat mysterious to Both feel known inside out, whole truth
partner, some things better left unsaid cannot be concealed or avoided
Fundamental disagreements can Few fundamental disagreements,
lead to serious arguments can argue for fun
Potential for jealousy and insecurity No one else can compete, bond is
unquestionably secure
Challenge is to discover and Challenge is to discover and welcome
maintain commonalities, make differences, make time to spend apart
time for togetherness
Questions: How to get closer? Questions: How to get enough distance?
How to live with unmet longing How to keep from suffocating
for closeness? in the closeness?
Sex is used as a vehicle to bring Sex is an extension of the compelling
each other closer. Momentary closeness that already exists. Fluid feelings of
feelings of "oneness" occur "oneness" frequently flood sexual encounters.
occasionally during sex.
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