Dodging and Deflecting

15^th July 2012 – Neytiri – How are you felling.

15^th July 2012 – Jake – I feel so grateful. The Force is too strong. My soul is counting the hours! How about u?

15^th July 2012 – Neytiri – To be honest i was anxious. I just needed to know that this is what you still want.

15^th July 2012 – Jake – ICU! More that life itself! Search your heart & soul & when u see me there you’ll know. Let go & Let God..Ish’llah

The last few days have been surreal and I still cannot believe in just over 24 hours we will be physically  together after almost 20 years!  The FORCE has been so strong, I'm not sure what will happen when we are inches apart. 

Neytiri appears to be very anxious which is no surprise. Her beliefs far outweigh her KNOWING or she is scared to acknowledge her KNOWING as it does not fit into her beliefs; The Dream becomes reality and then what happens to her identity; her attachments?

Dyer says with beliefs there is always doubt, whereas with knowing there is empowerment.  Beliefs are labels given to us by our parents, community and society at large. Knowings are from a Higher Power.  It is who we are as opposed to who we pretend to be.

However, I can empathise with Neytiri.  It is like welcoming your first child home.  You do not know how to be a parent so you take it one day at a time.  Same with this relation, we know each other intimately but have not been "together" for 20 years so a bit of apprehension is expected.  Also she is travelling such a long way and leaving her family for such a long period for the first time.

Only 1S 2go B4 we r ONE!

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I feel compelled to re-state these here:

Uniting two halves of one soul is inevitable, but timing depends upon your level of spirituality. When the time is ripe, true soul mates find one another even if they are worlds apart – whether physically, on opposite sides of the globe, or spiritually, with contrasting lifestyles and backgrounds. Here’s wishing you the courage to keep growing so that you may know – or continue to know – the blessing of oneness.

A soulmate is someone who has locks that fit our keys, and keys to fit our locks. When we feel safe enough to open the locks, our truest selves step out and we can be completely and honestly who we are; we can be loved for who we are and not for who we’re pretending to be. Each unveils the best part of the other. No matter what else goes wrong around us, with that one person we’re safe in our own paradise. Our soulmate is someone who shares our deepest longings, our sense of direction. When we’re two balloons, and together our direction is up, chances are we’ve found the right person. Our soulmate is the one who makes life come to life.


A person with whom you have an immediate connection the moment you meet - a connection so strong that you are drawn to them in a way you have never experienced before. As this connection develops over time, you experience a love so deep, strong and complex, that you begin to doubt that you have ever truly loved anyone prior. Your soulmate understands and connects with you in every way and on every level, which brings a sense of peace, calmness and happiness when you are around them. And when you are not around them, you are all that much more aware of the harshness of life, and how bonding with another person in this way is the most significant and satisfying thing you will experience in your lifetime. You are also all that much aware of the beauty in life, because you have been given a great gift and will always be thankful.


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Let It Roll off Our Back
by Madisyn Taylor

One of the most difficult challenges in life is learning not to take things to heart and hold on to it. Especially when we’re younger, or if we’re very sensitive, we take so much of what comes our way to heart. This can be overwhelming and unproductive if it throws us off balance on a regular basis. When we are feeling criticized or attacked from all directions, it becomes very difficult for us to recover ourselves so that we can continue to speak and act our truth. This is when we would do well to remember the old saying about letting certain things roll off us, like water off a duck’s back.

Most of the time, the attacks and criticisms of others have much more to do with them and how they are feeling than with us. If we get caught up in trying to adjust ourselves to other people’s negative energy, we lose touch with our core. In fact, in a positive light, these slings and arrows offer us the opportunity to strengthen our core sense of self, and to learn to dodge and deflect other people’s misdirected negativity. The more we do this, the more we are able to discern what belongs to us and what belongs to other people. With practice, we become masters of our energetic integrity, refusing to serve as targets for the disowned anger and frustration of the people around us.

Eventually, we will be able to hear the feedback that others have to offer, taking in anything that might actually be constructive, and releasing that which has nothing to do with us. First, though, we tend ourselves compassionately by recognizing when we can’t take something in from the outside without hurting ourselves. This is when we make like a duck, shaking it off and letting it roll off our back as we continue our way in the world.

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When we are criticized or attacked it is important to not take it into our heart space.