This step is powerful and provides incredible insurance.
This is one of the steps that members of the Narcissistic Abuse Recover Program go back over time and time again to get powerful emotional relief when the narcissist is attacking them.
It is very ‘normal’ to be in grave fear when painful events occur, or when you are purposefully lined up and attacked. The narcissist thrives on your pain and fear, and it keeps him or her energised and ‘powerful’ in these behaviours.
Please understand narcissists are energy vampires – they are not the source of their own energy. They need attention; they need your vibration to exist in your life. And this only needs to be energetic.
Your fear, pain and obsession from a distance is enough to keep him or her coming at you and throttling you.
However when you shift, and release all the pain and the fear, and come back to your inner detachment and peace, incredible things start to happen.
The narcissist loses his or her power. The lies, the manipulations against you, and the actions intended to hurt you and cause you grief start being exposed.
The deceptive tactics fall flat and the deceptions get caught out.
It just happens, and not as a result of you combating the narcissist – it is as a result of your being.
This does not mean you won’t defend yourself.
You will defend yourself, but you will not be defending yourself from a place of fear, pain and panic.
You will be defending yourself from a place of solid calm, knowing and truth.
You will not be trying to expose the narcissist and pull him or her undone – you will simply be walking your truth in your own integrity.
I have seen countless examples of narcissists coming undone in property settlements, custody cases and joint business dealings, and display just how powerless they really are when their previous victim stops handing over energy.
Truly you may have to experience this phenomenon to really believe me – but I can assure you with every ounce of my being what I am saying is true.
What you can expect, if you work hard on this step – and repeat it when you feel the fear starting to take grip again – is an incredible freedom of living your life without fear.
You will discover that if something does happen that would normally frighten you and send you into panic, you will instead respond calmly and effectively. You will be able to stand up, walk your truth and firmly know and believe it is all working out in perfect and divine order.
And truly it will.
This step puts you in the best possible position to create outcomes with the things in your life that the narcissist is trying to punish you with.
This step will take away his or her power to do that…
And you will experience the miraculous results – truly.
This step not only sets you up to break free from the narcissist’s actions, it also sets you up to break off the fear and pain of persecution in every area of your life.
Can you imagine how powerful that is when you achieve that?
You will FINALLY be free to be your authentic self without being paralyzed by the fear of others persecuting you.
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