Saturday, 7 July 2012

Let It Roll off Our Back


Truth Sets You Free

Fear of hearing the truth is a big block in experiencing genuinely fulfilling and loving relationships. We want to have the courage to hear those not-so-nice things that can help us grow and become better, happier people.

You have heard the expression, “Truth will set you free.” Well, only if you are open to hearing it, and changing.



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Thawing Things Out

There are many negative forces that attempt to block and impede our prayers as they travel through the spiritual network. We create these negative forces with our own harmful words and actions.

In the same way as freezing rain and ice can down a power line, our cold and bitter behavior breaks down the lines of communication to the source of all blessings.

The first step to drawing down more blessings is changing our words. Every time we want to curse another driver, complain to a waitress, or judge a relative – let’s say something nice instead.

When we observe our word choices, we change our lives for the better.


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Dodging and Deflecting
by Madisyn Taylor


When we are criticized or attacked it is important to not take it into our heart space.


One of the most difficult challenges in life is learning not to take things to heart and hold on to it. Especially when we’re younger, or if we’re very sensitive, we take so much of what comes our way to heart. This can be overwhelming and unproductive if it throws us off balance on a regular basis. When we are feeling criticized or attacked from all directions, it becomes very difficult for us to recover ourselves so that we can continue to speak and act our truth. This is when we would do well to remember the old saying about letting certain things roll off us, like water off a duck’s back.

Most of the time, the attacks and criticisms of others have much more to do with them and how they are feeling than with us. If we get caught up in trying to adjust ourselves to other people’s negative energy, we lose touch with our core. In fact, in a positive light, these slings and arrows offer us the opportunity to strengthen our core sense of self, and to learn to dodge and deflect other people’s misdirected negativity. The more we do this, the more we are able to discern what belongs to us and what belongs to other people. With practice, we become masters of our energetic integrity, refusing to serve as targets for the disowned anger and frustration of the people around us.

Eventually, we will be able to hear the feedback that others have to offer, taking in anything that might actually be constructive, and releasing that which has nothing to do with us. First, though, we tend ourselves compassionately by recognizing when we can’t take something in from the outside without hurting ourselves. This is when we make like a duck, shaking it off and letting it roll off our back as we continue our way in the world.

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